Tsetan - Anti-Bullying+Letters

**Tuesday March 6, 2012** Dear Bully,

I know you like bullying others around, but I didn't like the way you always treat me at recess by excluding me all the time and also the way you make fun of me in front of other people. Sometimes I get tired of you making fun of me all the time. It makes me feel bad. Why do you do this to other people ? Is it because you feel good about yourself by bullying others and also making front of others. What are the resons why you bully others around? Do you feel good and why?

If you feel good about making fun of others it's not okay to do that because you don't know how we feel when you bully us. If you imagine you were the victim and we were the bully and we always bully you every single time we see you. How would you feel ?

You should understand how other peolple feel when they get bullied. Always remember how your victim feels before you bully them. If you are just bullying us for no reason you should stop it !!!! If you bully people it doesn't make you look cool to everyone sometimes you make them feel scared of you and they don't want to be your friend at all. If you were nice and kind to others lots of people would want to be your friend. All it depends on is how you treat other people and how you make them feel ?

 Sincerely, The Victim

**Tuesday March 6, 2012 **

Dear Victim,

I am sorry on the way I treated you by excluding you all the time. I am also sorry that I always make fun of you in front of others. I know how it feels like to get bullied by other people I went to lots of different schools and the school I went to before this school I got bullied alot so then I became a bully ever since that day. Thats why I do this to other people and thats also why I bully others around. If I was the victim I would feel sad, depressed,annoyed and also embarrassed every single day I come to school. I understand why you think that I bully people because I just want to look cool but that isn't true. Sometimes I have days when I feel sad, lonely, mad,left out and also no one that is my friend. Thats why I bully people around. I just want to have friends and also I just don't want to be left out and be friends with everyone. All I wish is to be more friendly to others like the people that don't bully. I apologize for my behaviour and my actions that I did to you can you forgive me ? and also would you like to be friends with me ? I promise I will try to be a kind, forgiving, polite and e.t.c. person to everybody I see. I will try to stop the meanness starting from today. Sincerely, The Bully

**Wednesday March 7, 2012** Dear Victim and Bully, <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">I am sorry that I just watched and that I didn't help you when you were getting bullied, I am also sorry that I didn't help you by standing up for you or at least getting the teacher to come and help stop the bullying. I didn't help you because I was scared that the bully was going to come after me later. Next time I promise that I will help you because I am your friend and friends always help all their friends and also I will tell the teacher what was happening to come and help out so that you won't get bullied a lot like before. <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">I know how it feels like to get bully. It feels bad and and the next day you don't feel like coming to school or you get worried and also wonder what's going to happen tomorrow. I will promise that I will always help you out when your in trouble. I will also promise that I will be right by your side whenever you need me and also can you forgive me because I didn't help you ? <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">- for Victim <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">I know that bullying makes your frustration go away but its not always nice to bully others all the time. Sometimes you you make the bully sad about themselves and depress them when you make fun of them or maybe you exclude them for mostly everything. You might not notice what you are doing but what you are doing is not okay because sometimes when you bully them they think they aren't cool enough for other people, or maybe they feel like they don't fit in with the others because of the way you made fun of them or you excluded them because the way you look, their skin colour and maybe because of their religion. <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">It doesn't matter about how people look, what their skin colour is or the peoples religion. The main thing is that were all human beings. If everyone looks different on the outside everyone is the same in the inside. That means don't judge a person on the way they look, their skin colour, and e.t.c. because were all the same in the inside no matter what and always remember that DON'T FORGET !!!!! <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">- For Bully <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">Sincerely, <span style="font-family: Georgia,serif;">The bystander