Destiny - Anti-Bullying+Letters

Wednesday March 7th 2012

Dear Bully And Victim ,

(Bully) I saw you push that boy down and kick him in the stomach, You can't bully people. I don't know why people bully but this has to stop, don't think because I didn't tell **__THIS TIME__** I wont one of the next times. **__WILL NOT__** let you bully that boy or myself if you try i will stand up and if it gets worse I WILL tell the principal, this is serious by the way this is **__NOT__** tatel-tailing , you do not own that boy and will certainly not own me any time in my life.I will stand up and fight back if it gets that serious.You could of found a **__BETTER__** way to deal with your problems other than bullying there a many, many ways that are better than that. Bully You **__NEED HELP__** please get some, I don't know if you bully because you are hurting inside , if that is the reason, go see a counsellor ,it will help heal you!.

(Victim) I know the bully hurt you but you NEED to stand up for yourself.The bully hurt you mentally and i know it will stay in your mind forever and the pain will stay inside of you. Did you tell anyone yet?. if not you need to, tell your parents or an adult that you trust will give you good advise about the bullying and later tell the principal you do not have to tell them who, if you are afraid to , you can just tell them whats happening and they should be able to help you. If not than don't let it get to you and if the bully try's to pick a fight with you **__WALK AWAY__**.If you walk away it is much more mature then fighting and theres a better chance the bully will leave you alone.

( Bully) Watching you bully someone made me feel bad because I knew that you were angry.Maybe you were angry because you were hurting inside and didn't know how to make yourself feel better .**__I FELT HELPLESS__** knowing i couldn't pull you off of the victim.

(Victim) Watching you get bullied made me feel bad, sad because I couldn't help and __**I COULDN'T PULL HIM OFF YOU !!!!!!!**__ This made me feel **__HELPLESS .__**

SINCERELY,

The Bystander.

Wednesday March 7th 2012

Dear Victim,

I am sorry that I have been bullying you. This has to stop, we should be standing up for eachother not fighting amoungst eachother. I'm sorry I picked on you and hurt you but I was only doing it because I am bigger than you. I dont realy know why I used to bully ,but I do know that I am truly sorry and I will not do it again. I appolagize for physicly abuseing you and mentally abuseing you, sorry for every thing ive done. I bullied you because of power, I was hurting inside and the only way I could stop this was to bullie people so they would hurt inside and I would feel better. The fact that I am bigger than most kids ( mentally, physically strong) made me have power.

The power made me feel great and because I was hurting inside I used the power to bully people and make myself feel better. But it is time for you to stand up for yourself !. Don't let this happen again. Are you okay? , I hope you are because I know I was mean you and now you hurt too much to go out but I am truly sorry. Please forgive me! .

This made me feel bad after I realized what i was doing and I cant take this back. I understand if you do not want to forgive me!. I now hurt more than I did before I bullied you.

Sincerely The Bully.

Tuesday March 6th 2012.

Dear Bully,

Why are you bullying me ?,What did i do?. You hurt me, mentally , physically. You abused me. Why was I the only Victim, was it because I am smaller than you? . Was it because i am not as strong as you, was it because you had power ,you could use and make me weak?. The thing that hurt the most was the mental abuse! , physical abuse will go away but mental abuse can't be taken back. once you say somthing you can't take it back and that pain you have caused me will stay forever! :(. I can't push you down and get people to kick you in the stomach, but you , you have power and i'm the **ONLY** victim I cant get people to kick you in the stomach . I would never kick anyone in the stomach or push them down if i did push someone it would be by accident and i would feel so bad.My biggest question is why do you bully.

I dont know why I was bullied but I know this can't go on any longer than it has. I will not be bullied by you anymore,
 * ENOUGH IS ENOUGH** !!!!!!. I will fight back if I have to. I will stand up to you and anyone who try's to bully me in the future .You don't own me, I thought you did .Having to make other people feel bad to make yourself feel better is wrong , in the future remember that if you bully people your just going to feel worse and worse about yourself!. I will solve this by telling the principal, this is **NOT** tatel-tailing , this is serious.

Sincerely,

The Victim.